Saturday, March 23, 2013

Shine Your Shoes


There was a time when men shined their own shoes.  The black polish was a household item that was regularly purchased.  There was a sense of pride, professionalism, and manliness connected with having shoes that shined.  I like to think that even blue collar workers, who may not have been able to afford authentic shoe polish, would use a lump of coal they mined as makeshift polish.  I imagine that after a long shift, deep within the Earth's crust, deeper than most have even been, while waiting for the old steal cage elevator, the men sit down in the mine, break up some of the cherished coal to clean and shine their shoes.  When the men come up the elevator, shielding their eyes as they are blinded by that first glimpse of sunlight, their clothes, which are made of rags, and their faces are dirty from a lifestyle of manual labor.  But they have clean shoes that have been shined.

This scene has probably never happened. 

Men’s shoes today are mostly made of “pleather” and do not even need shining.  For those who purchase genuine leather shoes, I’m guessing they get their shoes shined by the little booths in malls and hotels.  Just like changing the oil in our cars, we get someone else to do it because it is easier and more convenient.

The next challenge in the "30 Days To a Better Man" called for aspiring men to shine their shoes.  The shiniest day for my dress shoes has been the first day I bought them.  When I read about this challenge I immediately thought of the scene from The Shawshank Redemption where Red is speaking about how Andy is wearing the warden’s shoes and nobody notices:  “…Andy did like he was told, buffed those shoes to a high mirror shine. The guards simply didn't notice. Neither did I... I mean, seriously, how often do you really look at a man’s shoes?...”  When I read the description of the challenge, in the first line, they mention this exact quote.  This got me even more excited.

I bought some Kiwi shoe polish, grabbed my dress shoes and a rag and thought of the history behind this practice and of my future of having shiny shoes, I went to work.

Here are some pictures.


Before


After




Now the shiniest day for my dress shoes is today.  




Sunday, March 17, 2013

Core Values

These posts, or steps, are based from the "30 Days To a Better Man" challenge set forth by artofmanliness.com.  The first challenge is for men to define their core values.  The challenge called for five, but I had to include six. I hope that my daily choices and actions reflect these core values that I have set forth.

Challenge #1:

Here are my six core values:

1. God - The pursuit of, love of, and longing for

                                       - Wife
2. Relationships       - Family
                                       - Friends

3. Grace - Towards others always

4. Service - Serve others before myself.

5. Discipline - Self-discipline in my responsibilities, choices, and actions

6. Challenge myself - In mind, body, and spirit

Those are my core values.  This list will change through time, but right now, I feel that this is a pretty good set to model my life by.